Things You Must Do To Your Children While They Grow In a Positive Way

Parents have the great responsibility of disciplining their children plus they play the significant role while watching their children growing up. According to the famous quote “Discipline will start at home”, therefore, these five words saying is just a common and simple thought but once applied to your child/children; this will lead to future success or in other words teaching your children in a right path or way is really significant as your they grow up, there will be no problem at all until they grow old. Besides, do you have kids or children?

If so, how did you implemented disciplined towards your kids? The main question to discuss in this article is how can you implement discipline to your children?

I know most of you had already married and have kids, right? Though, parents have different ways of disciplining their children; however, if you are thinking the positive results to your children, most of the parents have common objectives to implement discipline to their children. On the other hand, there are also parents who doesn’t know how to control their kids; as a result; their kids grew spoil and without manners. Don’t allow these characteristics or attitudes that might happen to your kids. 

1)      First, don’t ever shout or make your voice always yell—you must speak to your kids with proper advice so that they will understand what you are going to let them comprehend. Avoid shouting your child even with or without reason. Do you know what will be the result of keeping on shouting to your kids? This will lead also to shout you too. Do you like your children will always yelling while you are talking to you? Of course not, to be a role model. Just talk softly to them. Speaking softly will make them understand. However, even if you speak so softly to your kids and then you have companions in the house which do not know how to manage kids; most especially they are just poisoning the minds to your kids, which are a big problem. So, you better stay away to those people who will influence your kids before it’s too late. You can find good environment to your kids so that they will grow in a right path.

2)      If you will give food to your children, give them with equal share so that your children will think every one is special plus if you will give food to them, don’t ever let your children shout first before you will give food. If you will always keep your children shout or yell before they can eat food you planned to feed them. In the future, they will always shout and shout without any reason. If you talk to your kids in a proper way, your children will shout to you. NOTE: If the food is for them, give it to them right away, you know children like to eat and eat. Don’t wait that your children thinks negative about you. If there are reasons why you can't give them right away, you can explain to them in a proper and approachable way.

3)      Don’t ask question to your children which make them react negatively. Ask question like this “Clean your bedroom and if you are finished, I will check them out your bedroom. Don’t ask question like this, “Why you did not clean your bedroom? This question will have a tendency that your child will tell a lie. Your child will be defensive to their self; in this way, they will learn to tell a lie.

4)      Give your children a reward by means of praising them. For example, your children have done a work at home like washing plates or sweeping the floor. You can praise them like saying “very good”. Of course, if your child hears “very good with clap”, she/he will be challenge to do it again like doing household chores. The best thing you can praise them is to appreciate your children for doing right.

5)      Give always love to your child. Let your children feel that you love them. In this way of showing love for them, they will think and believe that they have parents who will support them in every step of their way.

6)      If your children likes to wash dishes even if they can’t perfectly do or finish the job, give them a try; just support them what they want to do as long as it is good and teaches them how to learn things.

7)      Give an extra time to your kids like going out in supermalls or department store for family bonding.  Family bonding will make a family stays longer, deeper and close relationship.

8)      The most important thing is teaching your children to be a God-FEARING. Going to church every week will truly help a lot. Teach them what is Jesus and how important is Jesus to our lives.

9)      Don’t show to your kids that you have lots of money. If your kids likes a toy. You could buy for them but not frequently. If you spoil them to buy and buy what they want. It’s not good for them. What if time will come that you don’t have money anymore and they learned that you have money always. How can you manage them? It’s better not to spoil them. Just advice them in a proper way so that they will understand you.

10)   Teach them not to lie. If they will tell the truth, it could be better so that as they will grow up, they are not liar. Give your children an environment which they can expressed what they feel inside. If they will tell you the truth, don’t get angry to them. Just praise them. If your children will tell you the truth, just say “I am happy that you tell the truth” and move on. Don’t ever recall the mistakes to your kids. 

There are many things you can do to make your children grow in a straight way. I know that you had implemented some of the lists above that I have given. Online based, you can also search what are the tips to make your children grow in a positive way. I hope this article will help this too.