Four (4) Significant Issues You Should Recognize About Divorce

Countries everywhere the world has distinct marriage principles. Mostly in United States of America, divorce is a normal occurrence to most family that comes up into misunderstanding; however, in the Philippines; divorce has not yet implemented but it’s in the hearsay that will be implemented soon.

 

But many people won’t agree to this kind of law as long time before Philippines never implemented divorce.

Is your marriage at a related stage? Perhaps your spouse has given up your trust or frequent conflicts have exhausted the joy from your relationship. If so, you might tell yourself, “We’ve fallen out of love” otherwise “we just aren’t meant for each other” or “we didn’t know what we were doing when we got married”. You could even be thinking, “Maybe we should divorce”.

Before making a hasty decision to end your marriage, you must think first. Divorce does not always finish life’s anxieties. Absolutely not, frequently it merely exchanges one set of problems for another, I am right? On the other side, the bible does not treat divorce casually. At the same time, the bible permits for divorce and remarriage on one position—sexual relations outside the marriage. Therefore, if you learn that your mate partner has been unfaithful, you have the right to terminate the marriage. In the end, you are the one who will live with the consequences; therefore, you are the one who must decide.

Now, I will give you the four important things that you must know about Divorce.

1)      The Financial Problem—the break up of a marriage frequently deals an upsetting financial blow to women. It’s difficult to some women because they have to care for the children, find a job to comply all the needs of the incomplete family as well as dealing or managing with the emotional trauma of divorce towards your kids. What might happen? If you divorce, there maybe a reduction in your income plus you may also have to move. If you retain custody, it may be difficult to support yourself and adequate care for the needs of your children.

2)      The Issues of Parenting—once you divorced, you will be both mom and dad to your children. You have to make decisions alone.  Those who share custody may face an additional problem like having to negotiate with ex-spouse on such delicate issues as visitation arrangements, support of the child as well as discipline. What might happen? The arrangement of custody set forth in a court of law may not be what you would prefer. On the other side, if you share custody, your ex-spouse may not be as reasonable as you would like regarding the aforementioned matters of visitation, support of finances and many more.

3)      The Effect of Divorce on You—if you divorced, it is only to be anticipated that you will experience a wide range of emotion. On one hand, you might still feel love for this person with whom you shared one-flesh bond. On the other hand, you might feel resentful over what has happened. What might happen? You may have lingering feelings of anger and resentment over the ways in which your spouse mistreated you. At times, loneliness may be overwhelming.

4)      The Effect of Divorce on Children—divorce could have devastating effect on your children, especially if you do not encourage them to have a healthy relationship with your ex-spouse. Admittedly, children are often aware of parental conflicts, and martial tension can take a toll on their young minds and hearts. However, to assume that a divorce will automatically be in their best interests could be a mistake.

Think of the four significant things you should distinguish when you divorce your partner. It can affect you and to your children.